The ten seconds after you tap Start
First comes the little jolt of nerves, the one you get just before someone answers a phone. Then the picture settles: a face, a room, a lamp in the corner, maybe a mug being put down out of shot. Whoever it is looks about as unsure as you do. Somebody says hi.
That moment is why a pink video call feels different from sending messages. Nothing is written in advance, and you can read a smile or a raised eyebrow immediately. It also means you do not need a clever opener. "Hey, can you hear me?" is a perfectly good start, and it gets a laugh more often than you would expect.
If you would rather not talk to anybody in particular, let random video chat matching decide who you meet.
