Video Chat with Girls: Real Conversations, Worldwide

Most of the time it is less dramatic than it sounds. Someone is tired of messaging people who never answer. Someone is curious about life in another country. Someone wants to practise a language, or just wants an evening conversation with a person who is not a coworker.

A video chat with girls is, in the end, a video chat with people, and the ones who turn up are as varied as anywhere. Treat it that way and it goes better.

A fair warning, because we would rather you hear it from us. PinkChat matches you with whoever is online at that moment. We cannot promise who that will be, and you cannot order a particular kind of person. You will meet women from many places and you will also meet people who are not women. Some chats will be great, some will be quiet and some will end after ten seconds.

That is what makes it live, and it is the same experience as any random video chat. If you prefer to keep it to one person with no audience, 1 on 1 video chat describes how that works.

There is nothing mysterious about this. The women who stay on a call are the ones who feel relaxed, and relaxed usually comes from basic good manners.

• Say hi like a person. "Hey, how is your day going?" works. Compliments on appearance as an opener usually do not.
• Ask one question and listen. Interviews feel like interviews. Let the answer lead to the next question.
• Do not ask for personal details early. Surname, address and social media handles can wait, and for many people forever.
• Take no for an answer the first time. If someone says they do not want to do something, the conversation continues without it or it ends.
• Be fine with a skip. Most skips are about timing, not you.

We wrote a longer set of ideas in how to talk to girls on video chat, including what to say when the conversation goes quiet.

• Starting with a request instead of a greeting.
• Pushing for a move to another app straight away.
• Comments about a body or an outfit.
• Staring silently with the camera at a strange angle.
• Pressing someone to keep the call going after they have said they have to go.

Anything in that list can also get you reported. The community guidelines are short and plain, and worth a read before you start.

Boundaries go both ways. You can skip anyone who makes you uneasy and you can report anyone who breaks the rules. Keep your surname, address and workplace to yourself, do not send money to anyone and do not click links a stranger sends you. If somebody tells you a long story that ends in a request for cash, it is a scam.

Our safety tips list the habits in one place, and the report and block options are built into the call screen.

One quiet advantage of video chat is how much of the world is a short tap away. A conversation over breakfast with someone who is about to go to bed is a very different thing from texting a stranger in your own city. If you enjoy that part, talk to strangers is a good next read.